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Other Games, Development, & Campaigns => Play by Post Games => Topic started by: Domina on October 03, 2023, 10:44:11 AM

Title: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on October 03, 2023, 10:44:11 AM
Nobody replies to games that get posted here and hardly anyone posts games in the first place. Why don't you archive it or delete it?
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Banjo Destructo on November 15, 2023, 09:45:07 AM
Legacy? Habit? Someone could start a new game with other poeple if they wanted?
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: zircher on November 15, 2023, 12:26:03 PM
Well, the short answer for me is that I read all the posts, but these are not the games I am interested in.  It would be kind of weird to reply to a post with 'not interested'. 
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: squirewaldo on November 15, 2023, 02:48:57 PM
Quote from: Domina on October 03, 2023, 10:44:11 AM
Nobody replies to games that get posted here and hardly anyone posts games in the first place. Why don't you archive it or delete it?

Nothing is perfect but if you really don't like it here, why don't you leave rather than post negative antagonistic posts??? If you were not here you would not care if the forum continues on.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on November 17, 2023, 10:50:43 PM
Weird, I don't remember saying anything about whether I like this forum. I asked a question. Nothing else.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: squirewaldo on November 18, 2023, 08:32:02 AM
Quote from: Domina on November 17, 2023, 10:50:43 PM
Weird, I don't remember saying anything about whether I like this forum. I asked a question. Nothing else.

And you got some answers. Be an asshole if you like. Take care.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on November 23, 2023, 12:06:25 PM
What made you decide to be a miserable cunt?
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Sarge1967 on December 04, 2023, 06:00:25 PM
Quote from: Domina on November 23, 2023, 12:06:25 PM
What made you decide to be a miserable cunt?

Hope the Admin remembers how to use the BANNED button.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: KindaMeh on December 04, 2023, 06:17:06 PM
Quote from: Sarge1967 on December 04, 2023, 06:00:25 PM
Quote from: Domina on November 23, 2023, 12:06:25 PM
What made you decide to be a miserable cunt?

Hope the Admin remembers how to use the BANNED button.

Firstly, welcome to the site! Always great to get some new blood and such. We may be a contentious group, but that and the relatively loose/free speech moderation practices are a big part of why this is one of the best places you'll probably find out there.

Speaking of which, while doing something like advocating literal neo-nazi beliefs, or loudly claiming that racial intermixing is bad with ALL CAPS and various racial and other epithets thrown in there at other posters, will prospectively get somebody banned here...

I'm pretty darn sure, 100%, that in this case it's just a bit of crude language being used. Which I myself would perhaps have been banned for once or twice if it were on the list, so to speak. You can be upset or hostile or outright political (in the political subforum) in your postings so long as you obey the base rules of the site. Conveniently, those are pretty much always at the top of the page.  ;D
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Sarge1967 on December 05, 2023, 04:47:30 PM
I understand foul language.  I was in the Army for two decades.
I can understand political speech and active debate.  That is fine.

But the poster called another member a name that could have been offensive.

That was the point of my post.  But When in Rome.   Ride a chariot.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: squirewaldo on December 05, 2023, 05:07:39 PM
Quote from: Sarge1967 on December 05, 2023, 04:47:30 PM
I understand foul language.  I was in the Army for two decades.
I can understand political speech and active debate.  That is fine.

But the poster called another member a name that could have been offensive.

That was the point of my post.  But When in Rome.   Ride a chariot.

I finally just added her to my Ignore list. Not really 100% satisfying because it does not remove her content from my feed, which I what I would prefer, but just masks it. I still see that she made a post, but I have to click on it to actually see what pointless rude and insulting troll comment she has made. Which I have been able to resist so far! So I guess its ok.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: KindaMeh on December 05, 2023, 05:51:24 PM
Fair enough, something to be said for civil discourse, though I do myself prefer a looser moderation hand most the time, hence part of why I'm here. Thank you for your service, incidentally.

Possibly may want to stay off the political subforum if you're worried about flame wars and insulting posts/terms if that kind of thing bothers you, as a heads-up. Folks are called things there, a fair bit, and ad hominem attacks won't get you banned more generally. (Though elsewhere someone starting that kind of thing could get a thread derailment warning and/or threadban, depending on how far afield things go. Likewise if things get too far afield from topic in a politics thread the thread can wind up closed or related things may come into play.)

In general, to be bannable as an insult something would have to be directly tied to hardcore beliefs on the part of the user about the innate inferiority or whatnot of a group. (Last I saw a similar ban, it was for someone insulting female members of the armed forces for being allegedly "loose" and somehow despite their service to our nation, of an inferior gender or something, and also sullying American blood with racial intermixing, which in turn segued into some pretty hardcore messed up racist ideology. Like, on the whole, a very sad and distorted outlook for this person, that did not at all recognize reality. I sort of wish I had a better example to help draw lines, but that's the only ban of that sort I've personally seen handed out.) All bans and threadbans are by default permanent here, too.

I guess for unwritten rules, if it's illegal IRL, or cyberstalking with the intention of doxxing and/or malicious and illegal activity, I've heard it's rightly not allowed here. Looking through the forum or asking other forumites would probably tell one a bit more, but that's most of what I've got for major things not explicitly posted at the top. Other folks can chime in if they know all that better.

Again, welcome to the forum, and also cool play by post scenario. I guess to bring things back to what is relevant to this thread's topic. (I don't have the aforementioned books, personally, though at a glance they seem interesting and I do like that edition. I have the 3.5 SRD and have used that before, but I also don't plan on supporting WotC with further purchases after what they tried to do to both that and the OGL.)


Also unrelatedly, cool website, squirewaldo.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: squirewaldo on December 05, 2023, 05:57:52 PM
Quote from: KindaMeh on December 05, 2023, 05:51:24 PM
Fair enough, something to be said for civil discourse, though I do myself prefer a looser moderation hand most the time, hence part of why I'm here. Thank you for your service, incidentally. ...

Also unrelatedly, cool website, squirewaldo.

I prefer civil discourse but with someone like whats-her-face that is just no possible. I have not seen a single post or comment from her that was not designed, IMHO, to elicit a negative response. That's called being a troll, and I try not to feed the trolls. I prefer blocking them. As for looser moderation, I too suspect I am still here because of that so as a beneficiary I cannot complain!

Thanks for the kind comment!
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: KindaMeh on December 05, 2023, 07:11:00 PM
Quote from: zircher on November 15, 2023, 12:26:03 PM
Well, the short answer for me is that I read all the posts, but these are not the games I am interested in.  It would be kind of weird to reply to a post with 'not interested'.

I think this answer could be surprisingly insightful, now that I've considered what outcomes would match with that hypothesis. Upon looking into it, a fair number of threads elsewhere with multiple pages of replies have fewer views than even threads here in this subforum with no responses. I think a lot of people may do what zircher does, or just enjoy checking on the threads or watching the few that get hits develop.

I guess also one has to factor in the threads that are less play-by-post and more recruitment-oriented too. *shrug*
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on January 07, 2024, 10:25:45 AM
Jesus you guys are softer than the kids I went to high school with. Fucking sad.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on January 07, 2024, 10:27:39 AM
Quote from: squirewaldo on December 05, 2023, 05:57:52 PM
Quote from: KindaMeh on December 05, 2023, 05:51:24 PM
Fair enough, something to be said for civil discourse, though I do myself prefer a looser moderation hand most the time, hence part of why I'm here. Thank you for your service, incidentally. ...

Also unrelatedly, cool website, squirewaldo.

I prefer civil discourse but with someone like whats-her-face that is just no possible. I have not seen a single post or comment from her that was not designed, IMHO, to elicit a negative response. That's called being a troll, and I try not to feed the trolls. I prefer blocking them. As for looser moderation, I too suspect I am still here because of that so as a beneficiary I cannot complain!

Thanks for the kind comment!

Disagreement isn't trolling and you have never provided a real response to any of my arguments, coward.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: KindaMeh on January 10, 2024, 11:25:42 AM
I don't think he's gonna see your post, since I think he probably still has you on the ignore setting. On the plus side, lower chances of thread derailment all around, and less unnecessary strife.

Anyway, with respect to the thread topic at hand, what did you think about all the views and lurkers this section gets? There seems to be demand, even if supply is a bit meh. Likewise, I can't really measure the value of just having a place where folks can recruit for games and the like. Seems like the kind of thing we might want to have even if it only gets used occasionally.

I get wanting more activity in this section, and I do think this thread has brought attention to that, but I don't really know if that's a thing that could be encouraged through site policy or the like. Likewise, there have over the years been some games, recruitment, and stuff, if not especially spectacular.

Is there an upside to dropping this segment? I feel like the opportunity cost lies more with not having it than having it. Relatively minor thought it may be. Could certainly be I'm just not seeing the perks at the moment, but IDK.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Joey2k on February 17, 2024, 01:12:51 AM
Quote from: Sarge1967 on December 05, 2023, 04:47:30 PM
I understand foul language.  I was in the Army for two decades.
I can understand political speech and active debate.  That is fine.

But the poster called another member a name that could have been offensive.

That was the point of my post.  But When in Rome.   Ride a chariot.

Pundit himself has called people here the same, and worse. Thick skin is occasionally required where free speech is concerned.
Title: Re: Why does this forum still exist?
Post by: Domina on April 23, 2024, 06:09:14 PM
(https://i.imgur.com/SGdKndo.png)

lmao