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Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 13, 2017, 03:53:24 AM
I've seen a few of these threads around, so I'll take it as a tradition. Hi. I'm a regular at, ah, a certain other roleplaying site who shall remain nameless but has a depressingly well-earned reputation for being more than a bit uptight. Having lurked around here for a bit, I think this place might go a bit easier on my blood pressure, so... pleased to meet y'all? :)

I've been roleplaying since I was in my teens, and broke my teeth on Drakar & Demoner 4E, which pretty much both dates me and places me geographically. I went from that to the Classic World of Darkness, went from that to Exalted, and went from that to... well, to a number of different things, really.

My most commonly played game for the last half a decade has been Blue Rose...

*ducks pelted fruit*

... which is actually quite a good game in spite of and entirely aside from the constant controversy around it, and I would be happy to explain how and why if anyone is interested. :p (I can't answer for its fanbase, though. Everything you've heard about that is probably true, I am very sorry to say. When I read an article by someone saying that buying the second edition about this game about tolerance and diplomacy would be a great way of sticking it to The Wrong Sort Of People I died a little on the inside, I tellz ya... though I digress)

Just generally, I think my tastes nowadays fall in some kind of uncomfortable middle ground between between old-school (limited rules all around) and bleeding-edge storygames (rules for what you're going to be doing in a narrative, thematic, fundamental sense that isn't affected by boring things like actual objective reality... or something, I can never quite figure out how that's supposed to work). I'm a straightforward person - I want a nice comprehensive setting-simulator that tell me what I can and can't do and lets me decide for myself what, within that range, I actually want to do. So GURPS, Savage Worlds... and, yes, True20, though it's more than a bit messy. I'm also very fond of Pendragon at the moment, though I think trying to actually run it would give me a nervous breakdown.

My current major project is restarting an old (and very long-running) Exalted campaign, this time with a new rulesystem that's some sort of unholy hybrid between regular Exalted 2E, True20, and a generous helping of Godbound. I am intrigued by the idea that it might actually be possible to run an Exalted campaign without feeling like the rules are fighting me every step of the way. :D
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Spinachcat on February 13, 2017, 04:23:03 AM
Welcome to theRPGsite!!

Are you yet another of the RPGnet banned refugees? If so, what did you do? It's always fun to hear.


Quote from: Baeraad;945390*ducks pelted fruit*

Dude, that wasn't fruit...

I'm not a BR fan, but I greatly enjoyed True20 and I don't know why that game line wasn't more popular. We did a couple great campaigns with T20 and I was surprised when it had completely fallen off the radar of most RPGers.


Quote from: Baeraad;945390I'm also very fond of Pendragon at the moment, though I think trying to actually run it would give me a nervous breakdown.

We have several Pendragon fans aboard here. If you want to discuss Pendragon and its GMing issues, launch a thread.


Quote from: Baeraad;945390I am intrigued by the idea that it might actually be possible to run an Exalted campaign without feeling like the rules are fighting me every step of the way. :D

Lots of Godbound fans around here too. SineNomine can sometimes be summoned as well.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 13, 2017, 04:35:55 AM
Quote from: Spinachcat;945395Welcome to theRPGsite!!

Thank you. :)

Quote from: Spinachcat;945395Are you yet another of the RPGnet banned refugees? If so, what did you do? It's always fun to hear.

Hehe, nah, I'm not banned. It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )

Quote from: Spinachcat;945395Dude, that wasn't fruit...

Oh dear. I did think it smelled funny...

Quote from: Spinachcat;945395We have several Pendragon fans aboard here. If you want to discuss Pendragon and its GMing issues, launch a thread.

Lots of Godbound fans around here too. SineNomine can sometimes be summoned as well.

Cool. I'm a big fan of SineNomine - Spears of the Dawn is on my list of games to try at some point as well. :)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Spinachcat on February 13, 2017, 05:01:12 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945396It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

I absolutely understand. It's pre-emptive ban protection.

Of course, their mods troll over here looking for heretics so welcome to the Naughty List!

Whining...is a perfectly fine word in these parts. We do it plenty :)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Omega on February 13, 2017, 06:08:27 AM
Welcome to wacky world.

Heres your complimentary WWII helmet. Hope you survive the shelling.

One of my patrons played Drakar och Demoner with his brother as well. Though I do not know what edition.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 13, 2017, 06:59:05 AM
Quote from: Spinachcat;945398I absolutely understand. It's pre-emptive ban protection.

Of course, their mods troll over here looking for heretics so welcome to the Naughty List!

Do they now, the sneaky buggers? I guess I'd better be on my best behaviour over there so they don't get any excuses. I might be getting sour on the forum as a whole, but I still like the play-by-post section.

Quote from: Spinachcat;945398Whining...is a perfectly fine word in these parts. We do it plenty :)

Heh, me too, actually. I also complain, bitch, piss, moan and express my severe displeasure. So while I still don't think that comment deserved to be red-texted, I'll grant you that it was somewhat hypocritical. :p

Quote from: Omega;945406Welcome to wacky world.

Heres your complimentary WWII helmet. Hope you survive the shelling.

That's very kind of you. And just a tiny bit ominous. *looks around nervously*

Quote from: Omega;945406One of my patrons played Drakar och Demoner with his brother as well. Though I do not know what edition.

Yeah, DoD is for Sweden what The Dark Eye is for Germany. If you live there, it's likely what you started with. I'm not sure how to specify editions, but 4E was roughly the Ereb Altor / Svavelvinter one, if that helps.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Shipyard Locked on February 13, 2017, 07:06:16 AM
Welcome. The Tiki bar opens in thirty minutes, but please note that guns are not confiscated at the door.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: nDervish on February 13, 2017, 07:22:57 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945390I've been roleplaying since I was in my teens, and broke my teeth on Drakar & Demoner 4E, which pretty much both dates me and places me geographically.

About when did 4e come out?  I recently got my first copy of DoD through last year's kickstarter, but haven't sat down yet to make the effort of reading that much Swedish.

Quote from: Baeraad;945396Hehe, nah, I'm not banned. It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )

Yes, agreed.  My activity on Big Purple waxes and wanes, but I always follow the infraction forum regardless.  I remember seeing someone recently getting a day off for calling people "whiners", mainly because my eyes rolled so hard at that one that I hurt myself.  Looked like an utterly reasonable post to me.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 13, 2017, 07:44:50 AM
Quote from: Shipyard Locked;945410Welcome. The Tiki bar opens in thirty minutes, but please note that guns are not confiscated at the door.

I'll keep that in mind. ;)

Quote from: nDervish;945414About when did 4e come out?  I recently got my first copy of DoD through last year's kickstarter, but haven't sat down yet to make the effort of reading that much Swedish.

1991, according to Wikipedia - which fits with my recollection of playing it through my early teens.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: The Butcher on February 13, 2017, 04:52:05 PM
Welcome, Baeraad!

Quote from: Baeraad;945390My most commonly played game for the last half a decade has been Blue Rose...

*ducks pelted fruit*

... which is actually quite a good game in spite of and entirely aside from the constant controversy around it, and I would be happy to explain how and why if anyone is interested.

I would actually love to read a favorable review from a relatable gamer. Pitch it!

Quote from: Baeraad;945390Just generally, I think my tastes nowadays fall in some kind of uncomfortable middle ground between between old-school (limited rules all around) and bleeding-edge storygames (rules for what you're going to be doing in a narrative, thematic, fundamental sense that isn't affected by boring things like actual objective reality... or something, I can never quite figure out how that's supposed to work). I'm a straightforward person - I want a nice comprehensive setting-simulator that tell me what I can and can't do and lets me decide for myself what, within that range, I actually want to do. So GURPS, Savage Worlds... and, yes, True20, though it's more than a bit messy. I'm also very fond of Pendragon at the moment, though I think trying to actually run it would give me a nervous breakdown.

The crowd here is a tad more diverse in gaming tastes than we're usually given credit for. D&D and old school stuff does tend to get the most space but workable threads on White Wolf, Savage Worlds and even AW/PbtA can be had.

Quote from: Baeraad;945390My current major project is restarting an old (and very long-running) Exalted campaign, this time with a new rulesystem that's some sort of unholy hybrid between regular Exalted 2E, True20, and a generous helping of Godbound. I am intrigued by the idea that it might actually be possible to run an Exalted campaign without feeling like the rules are fighting me every step of the way. :D

Running a Godbound game that's getting prematurely shut down due to off-gaming-table drama between players. But it's a very good game I'll be returning to in the near future. Someone posted some great Exalted conversion guidelines a few months back; I can't find them right now but do take advantage of the functioning Search engine to look it up. ;)

Quote from: Spinachcat;945398Of course, their mods troll over here looking for heretics so welcome to the Naughty List!

I've been posting here and there for a while. Never got into trouble.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Skywalker on February 13, 2017, 06:51:24 PM
Your tastes seem similar to mine. I like Blue Rose (though, like you, I am not that interested in the new AGE version) and I am big fan of True20 too. In fact, I am currently considering using Interface Zero's True 20 book with Worlds of Android.

I am also a big fan of Exalted and Godbound :).
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: GrabtharsHammer on February 13, 2017, 08:10:59 PM
Welcome Baeraad!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Spinachcat on February 13, 2017, 08:35:21 PM
Quote from: The Butcher;945459I've been posting here and there for a while. Never got into trouble.

Same with me, but that's because I am very careful to keep my Purple comments all positive and vanilla.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: trechriron on February 13, 2017, 09:01:05 PM
Welcome!

I'm another True20 fan! I wish it was in a current supported line in some form. I've been toying with it in several forms, but my ambitions outpace my free time. :-D
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: GameDaddy on February 13, 2017, 09:16:03 PM
Hi, and Welcome to the RPGSite!

I enjoy my version of Drakar Och Demoner, better known here in the west as Basic Roleplaying. My personal favorite version happens to be the Avalon Hill Deluxe Edition of Runequest, the one that came with the Medieval Europe map.

Also quite happy to hear you enjoy playing Exalted and still want to run Exalted. That's one I have always wanted to run as a GM, ever since I picked up my pre-release playtest copy of the rules from Origins in 2002? ...I think, however sadly, my players have expressed no interest in trying that game, even though the gameworld is phenomenal, and there is a very interesting backstory for this.

Anyway, Welcome to TheRPGSite.

P.S. Also, I happen to also like Blue Rose too. Nicole Lindroos did a great job putting together what I would best describe as a Romantic/Chivalric RPG. I even like the Magic Deer that eat magic Corn and fly. But don't get the Pundit started down that that road!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Voros on February 13, 2017, 09:21:25 PM
I like Pendragon a lot but have only ran a few sessions at a time. Use to be hard to find people willing to play anything besides D&D. No reason to be intimidated, it runs quite well.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Dan Davenport on February 13, 2017, 10:43:28 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945396Hehe, nah, I'm not banned. It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )

Welcome, Baeraad!

If you enjoy chatrooms, check out the link to #rpgnet in my signature. It's unrelated to the RPGnet website these days in all but name, and even the Pundit approves of the place. :)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 14, 2017, 01:53:21 AM
Quote from: The Butcher;945459I would actually love to read a favorable review from a relatable gamer. Pitch it!

Can do! :) I'll focus mostly on 1E, since that's the one I've got experience with, but I'll add some of my initial impressions of 2E at the end.

If I had to sum up my affection for BR in a single sentence, I'd say that it's a game where everything is infused with a bit of low-grade awesomeness. It's not high fantasy, where there are a few people who matter and everyone else are part of the faceless crowds. It's not low fantasy, where no one at all matters especially much (so you'd better start scrambling for survival, worm!). In BR, everyone, down to the lowliest class-less NPC, has a divine purpose to their life that they can either live up to or tragically fall short of, and the ability to do a bit of cool stuff (magical or otherwise) is, if not universal, then at least so common as to be generally accepted. To be sure, some people are more awesome than others - there is such a thing as powerful archmages, supreme warriors and mighty rulers, and you are explicitly encouraged to try to become one of them - but even to the people at the top, the ones down at the bottom never quite cease to matter. Even the greatest mage will have blind spots among his powers, and even the greatest warrior can potentially be laid low by a lucky shot from an amateur.

In relation to that, the chargen system gives you what I've found to be an incredibly quick and easy way to generate surprisingly complex characters. Basically, each character has a calling represented by a Tarot card from the Major Arcana, a Light Nature describing his best personality trait and a Shadow Nature describing his worst. It's the work of seconds to make those three choices, and what it gives you is a character with an interesting, even profound, set of aspirations and outlooks (because you can say that for Tarot, it's good at providing evocative archetypes :) ) which can be expressed in either positive or negative ways. Even the noblest hero is human and flawed at his core. Even the vilest villain has something admirable about him; his essential nature is never truly irredeemable, no matter how twisted and poisonous his way of adhering to it has become.

The balance between fighting, magic and skill use is another thing I particularly like. Fighting is pretty much always going to come in handy, but BR is supposed to be about peaceful solutions, and it provides that by offering a very well-defined skill system and rules for non-combat actions (to be fair, it cribbed most of it from D&D, but at least it had the sense to steal good stuff ;) ). The magic, too, is mainly utilitarian. There are no quadratic wizards here, a powerful single-class adept facing a halfway competent guy with a sword is in serious trouble - but that adept is also going to be able to solve a lot of problems that couldn't be solved with a sword. At the same time, skills and magic can both be highly useful to augment mundane fighting skills, so combat pragmatists and magic knights both have their place on the battlefield as well. It all comes together to create very complex situations that reward creativity and provide a lot of interesting twists.

What all this amounts to is a game full of interesting characters using their own particular talents to achieve their goals. It's a world of warrior-poets pitching their unique fighting styles against each other in pursuit of goals that might be big or small, but which are always fundamentally personal and individual. It's a world of small people being more important than the grand causes they might champion. And it's a world of tragedy, where every loss is deeply felt.

Now, as for 2E... in many ways, I think it fixes a lot of the problems with 1E - said problems being mainly, the core book was absolute shit at presenting all of the above. :p While everything I said is present in the rules and setting, in 1E it was buried under the most uninspired prose I've ever seen in a roleplaying book. The supplements did a lot to add dash and flair and give a better idea of the setting as a place where things actually happened, but they still struggled with being weighted down by the core book's lackluster setting description. The new edition, on the other hand, starts off with the idea that there are dashing adventures to be had and a ton of mysteries to unravel, and goes from there. It spends a lot of time providing helpful advice to do... well, everything that it took me several years to figure out that I should be doing, to be honest.

What I don't quite like about 2E - though I understand why it was probably a good idea - is the revamping of the mechanics from True20 to AGE. True20 has, I feel, a really nice mix between grittiness and excitement, and between providing distinct abilities and powers and making it possible to style your character any way you wanted to. AGE is easier to use, but it also feels more boxed in to me, and a lot flashier - they've gone full-on swashbuckler with this edition, with more quick improvisational action and less careful strategy and distinctive fighting / adventuring styles. This is, to be honest, probably the best course of action if they want more people playing the game, because it took me years and years to get a handle on True20 and it was an absolute pain in the ass until then. But now that I do have a feel for it, I'm inclined to be a grognardy grognard and complain about how everything is getting watered down and made flavourless to suit those darn, lazy, no-good kids of today. :p

Quote from: GameDaddy;945513P.S. Also, I happen to also like Blue Rose too. Nicole Lindroos did a great job putting together what I would best describe as a Romantic/Chivalric RPG. I even like the Magic Deer that eat magic Corn and fly. But don't get the Pundit started down that that road!

Ahem, yes, I'm familiar with the views of Mr Pundit... :p He's not completely wrong, and in fact I agree with a few of his points, but he really seems to see everything in black and white and it leads him to some odd conclusions. In particular, I've always been mystified by the fact that he's managed to look at a game where "get filthy stinking rich" is one of the suggested heroic callings, where the Goddess of Commerce is one of the seven fully-good deities, where the main kingdom is explicitly noted as having been brought to greatness through its commitment to free trade and hands out parliamentary seats to the richest people around for God's sake... and from that draw the conclusion that ZOMG COMMUNISM!!!!!! :p

Quote from: Voros;945515I like Pendragon a lot but have only ran a few sessions at a time. Use to be hard to find people willing to play anything besides D&D. No reason to be intimidated, it runs quite well.

It may be that my GM has set a dauntingly high example. I swear the man is some kind of walking encyclopedia of British history and Arthurian legend. :eek:

Quote from: Dan Davenport;945526Welcome, Baeraad!

If you enjoy chatrooms, check out the link to #rpgnet in my signature. It's unrelated to the RPGnet website these days in all but name, and even the Pundit approves of the place. :)

Yeah, I've heard about it. I might check it out sometime. :)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: noman on February 14, 2017, 01:57:36 AM
Welcome, Baeraad!

For God's sake, stay out of the moors.  :p
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 14, 2017, 02:01:37 AM
Quote from: noman;945554Welcome, Baeraad!

For God's sake, stay out of the moors.  :p

If I see any moors, I will make a point of turning around and walking the other way. ;)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: AsenRG on February 14, 2017, 03:10:11 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945390I've seen a few of these threads around, so I'll take it as a tradition. Hi. I'm a regular at, ah, a certain other roleplaying site who shall remain nameless but has a depressingly well-earned reputation for being more than a bit uptight. Having lurked around here for a bit, I think this place might go a bit easier on my blood pressure, so... pleased to meet y'all? :)
Welcome to theRPGSite!

QuoteMy most commonly played game for the last half a decade has been Blue Rose...

... which is actually quite a good game in spite of and entirely aside from the constant controversy around it, and I would be happy to explain how and why if anyone is interested. :p
Man, we've got a MyF(a)rog player here!
Blue Rose just never appealed to me. It's not that it actively kills my interest, it's that I haven't seen anything that contributes to making it interesting!
Can you tell me why I'd want to use BR as a setting, and not a setting like, say, Exalted's Creation? (I can easily run a game of heroic mortals there with another system, and actually have done so).
Let's leave the True20 system aside for now, please.

Quote(I can't answer for its fanbase, though. Everything you've heard about that is probably true, I am very sorry to say. When I read an article by someone saying that buying the second edition about this game about tolerance and diplomacy would be a great way of sticking it to The Wrong Sort Of People I died a little on the inside, I tellz ya... though I digress)
OK, let's leave them aside, too:D!

QuoteJust generally, I think my tastes nowadays fall in some kind of uncomfortable middle ground between between old-school (limited rules all around) and bleeding-edge storygames (rules for what you're going to be doing in a narrative, thematic, fundamental sense that isn't affected by boring things like actual objective reality... or something, I can never quite figure out how that's supposed to work).

I'm a straightforward person - I want a nice comprehensive setting-simulator that tell me what I can and can't do and lets me decide for myself what, within that range, I actually want to do. So GURPS, Savage Worlds... and, yes, True20, though it's more than a bit messy.
I don't have any idea how you combine those two approaches...

QuoteI'm also very fond of Pendragon at the moment, though I think trying to actually run it would give me a nervous breakdown.
Your Pendragon Will Vary.
And the sooner you realize that, the happier you shall be with the game.

QuoteMy current major project is restarting an old (and very long-running) Exalted campaign, this time with a new rulesystem that's some sort of unholy hybrid between regular Exalted 2E, True20, and a generous helping of Godbound. I am intrigued by the idea that it might actually be possible to run an Exalted campaign without feeling like the rules are fighting me every step of the way. :D
I've been thinking of writing guidelines for converting Exalted to Traveller (possibly the Cepheus Engine), just to see the faces some people would make...
Then I realize my time is better spent elsewhere.

Quote from: Baeraad;945396(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )
Funny, I got threadbanned and warned about a similar comment last night;)!
Oh, and also for excessive use of smilies:). Can you believe that:p? In a forum that limits smilies to 10 per post, people still have issues with someone adding smilies within those limits:D!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 14, 2017, 04:10:14 AM
Quote from: AsenRG;945559Welcome to theRPGSite!

Thank you. :)

Quote from: AsenRG;945559Blue Rose just never appealed to me. It's not that it actively kills my interest, it's that I haven't seen anything that contributes to making it interesting!
Can you tell me why I'd want to use BR as a setting, and not a setting like, say, Exalted's Creation? (I can easily run a game of heroic mortals there with another system, and actually have done so).
Let's leave the True20 system aside for now, please.

Well... for one thing, Aldea has a great deal less grimdark. This is by design - Creation is meant to be a brutal, visceral place full of blood and glory and mighty heroes standing tall in a world that gives no quarter to the weak. Aldea, by contrast, is a world where the soft, civilised values and basic human decency tends to manage to survive even under harsh conditions. Good will prevail in Aldea - maybe not today, and almost certainly not without a price being paid, but eventually those who build and preserve will find a way to overcome those who destroy and oppress. In Creation, you will inevitably fall in the end, and your triumph is that right now, you're still standing. In Aldea, evil will inevitably fall in the end, and the tragedy is that right now, it's still out there doing harm to innocents.

For another, the scope of Aldea is smaller. There are fewer towering empires, and more small towns with dark secrets. Individuals matter in Aldea - all individuals, not just the one-in-a-million heroic types who are capable of rising above the throng. Yes, you can create smaller stories set in Creation, but then you're on your own; the setting material for Creation doesn't spend much time on anything smaller than a city of millions or a timescale shorter than a thousand years. The most powerful kingdom in Aldea was founded 300 years ago and you can ride across it in about a month. Likewise, magic in Creation is either a world-shaking force wielded by an elite few or a bunch of barely noticeable tricks that mortal sages nonetheless have to spend a lifetime studying. In Aldea, magic is inborn in a significant portion of the population and part of everyday life - not overpowering, but eminently useful and shaping the way society works in simple, straightforward ways. It's a smaller place, with more granularity.

Thirdly, Aldea has a lot of setting elements that just wouldn't be possible in Creation, at least not without some serious tweaking. A race of sentient, psychic horses devoted to protecting the natural world and who form soulbonds with worthy riders to go on adventures with them? You could probably come up with something like that for Creation - you can get anything into Creation, if you really try - but there they would be some sort of spirits with a sinister hidden agenda or Wyld mutants with a taste for human flesh. If you just adopted Rhy-Horses straight out, they'd clash with the surrounding Heavy Metal badassery, because they're just too darn cute for Creation... and either way, they'd be fairly irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. In Aldea, Rhy-Horses are a big deal, both in practical terms and for metaphysical reasons. Same with, for example, the Sea Folk. Yes, you could have green-skinned dolphin-people in Creation - just a few basic mutations, and there you are. But they wouldn't be a race of inherently holy beings who were closer to the fluidity of the human soul's natural state than others, because that's just not the metaphysical background of Creation.

Short answer? In Aldea, you are a beautiful unique snowflake of a soul trying to find your way back to the peace and freedom of your true, natural state. In Creation, you are a crappy disposable prayer-generator who got ideas above your station and somehow managed to take over a world that was never meant to be yours, and now it's up to you what you make of it. Both scenarios have their appeal, depending on your taste and your current mood.

Quote from: AsenRG;945559OK, let's leave them aside, too:D!

Yes, let's. Thinking about them depresses me. :(

Quote from: AsenRG;945559I don't have any idea how you combine those two approaches...

Hmm? Which two approaches?

Quote from: AsenRG;945559Funny, I got threadbanned and warned about a similar comment last night;)!

So I see. Well, I hear ya, for what it's worth. I personally feel that if they don't want to be told that they're whining, they should maybe stop whining so goddamn much. :p Too much negativity is toxic both for the ones spreading it and for the ones who have to listen to it, no matter how justified it supposedly is.

Quote from: AsenRG;945559Oh, and also for excessive use of smilies:). Can you believe that:p? In a forum that limits smilies to 10 per post, people still have issues with someone adding smilies within those limits:D!

Flat what.

*reads ticket*

... yep, that's what it says, all right. Too many smileys. Jesus Christ, you can't make this shit up. I... it... that... HOW DO THEY NOT REALISE HOW FUCKED UP THIS IS?
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: The Butcher on February 14, 2017, 05:30:08 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945553Can do! :) I'll focus mostly on 1E, since that's the one I've got experience with, but I'll add some of my initial impressions of 2E at the end.

That's a good pitch. I'd play this. :)

Oh yeah, and I'd still Shadow of the Demon Lord-ize it, 'cuz I suck.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Opaopajr on February 14, 2017, 11:51:07 AM
Welcome! Savor Discordance!
(Nah, we're not all that bad. Just watch for the tar pits. :D Ooh, and the moors, those too!)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Cave Bear on February 14, 2017, 12:11:10 PM
Hello!

Quote from: Baeraad;945390My current major project is restarting an old (and very long-running) Exalted campaign, this time with a new rulesystem that's some sort of unholy hybrid between regular Exalted 2E, True20, and a generous helping of Godbound. I am intrigued by the idea that it might actually be possible to run an Exalted campaign without feeling like the rules are fighting me every step of the way. :D

Sounds cool. Keep us updated!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 15, 2017, 02:00:14 AM
Quote from: The Butcher;945570That's a good pitch. I'd play this. :)

Oh yeah, and I'd still Shadow of the Demon Lord-ize it, 'cuz I suck.

I must admit that I once ran what was essentially a Call of Cthulhu scenario with BR. Complete with blasphemous tomes and extra tentacles. Oh, and the sorcerous villain was impersonating one of the backward [strike]New England Puritans[/strike] Jarzoni villagers by means of a Flesh Shaping ritual that involved flaying the skin off of the person he was going to turn into and stitching it onto himself. :D There is room for grimdark if you want it, is what I'm saying - and the overall cutesiness of the setting tends to make it stand out all the more.

Quote from: Cave Bear;945634Sounds cool. Keep us updated!

Will do. :) The first session is set for this Saturday, so I'll let you know how it goes.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: AsenRG on February 15, 2017, 04:26:46 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945564Thank you. :)
You're welcome:)!

QuoteGood will prevail in Aldea - maybe not today, and almost certainly not without a price being paid, but eventually those who build and preserve will find a way to overcome those who destroy and oppress.
That's the thing. The certainty bores me.

QuoteIn Creation, you will inevitably fall in the end, and your triumph is that right now, you're still standing.
Luckily, I've never played Exalted with a GM that adopted that stance.

QuoteYes, you can create smaller stories set in Creation, but then you're on your own; the setting material for Creation doesn't spend much time on anything smaller than a city of millions or a timescale shorter than a thousand years.
I'm pretty sure that the Haslanti League and pretty much all of the West disagrees with that assertion...
Are you sure you're not listening to Exalted fans? Because the fans can be, at times, similar to those of Blue Rose in your description;).

QuoteThe most powerful kingdom in Aldea was founded 300 years ago and you can ride across it in about a month.
That's about 1500 km across? Not small at all, I'd say.

QuoteLikewise, magic in Creation is either a world-shaking force wielded by an elite few or a bunch of barely noticeable tricks that mortal sages nonetheless have to spend a lifetime studying. In Aldea, magic is inborn in a significant portion of the population and part of everyday life - not overpowering, but eminently useful and shaping the way society works in simple, straightforward ways. It's a smaller place, with more granularity.
Yeah, but since I generally prefer less magic for the PCs, that's another thing that bores me;).

QuoteThirdly, Aldea has a lot of setting elements that just wouldn't be possible in Creation, at least not without some serious tweaking. A race of sentient, psychic horses devoted to protecting the natural world and who form soulbonds with worthy riders to go on adventures with them? You could probably come up with something like that for Creation - you can get anything into Creation, if you really try - but there they would be some sort of spirits with a sinister hidden agenda or Wyld mutants with a taste for human flesh.
Or I'd simply make them elementals, or Lunarspawn.

QuoteSame with, for example, the Sea Folk. Yes, you could have green-skinned dolphin-people in Creation - just a few basic mutations, and there you are. But they wouldn't be a race of inherently holy beings who were closer to the fluidity of the human soul's natural state than others, because that's just not the metaphysical background of Creation.
Yeah, but again, inherently holy beings are another thing I consider boring (and raises a whole host of hard to resolve questions, for me).

QuoteShort answer? In Aldea, you are a beautiful unique snowflake of a soul trying to find your way back to the peace and freedom of your true, natural state. In Creation, you are a crappy disposable prayer-generator who got ideas above your station and somehow managed to take over a world that was never meant to be yours, and now it's up to you what you make of it. Both scenarios have their appeal, depending on your taste and your current mood.
Thanks, that was...an evocative description, although again, it doesn't jive with my experience of Creation;)!

QuoteYes, let's. Thinking about them depresses me. :(
Yeah, that's the description I mean.


QuoteHmm? Which two approaches?
Those I quoted.
"Just generally, I think my tastes nowadays fall in some kind of uncomfortable middle ground between between old-school (limited rules all around) and bleeding-edge storygames (rules for what you're going to be doing in a narrative, thematic, fundamental sense that isn't affected by boring things like actual objective reality... or something, I can never quite figure out how that's supposed to work)."

"I'm a straightforward person - I want a nice comprehensive setting-simulator that tell me what I can and can't do and lets me decide for myself what, within that range, I actually want to do. So GURPS, Savage Worlds... and, yes, True20, though it's more than a bit messy."

Unless you consider GURPS to be old-school, I don't know how you combine "limited rules", "bleeding edge storyhames" and "comprehensive setting-simulator".

QuoteSo I see. Well, I hear ya, for what it's worth. I personally feel that if they don't want to be told that they're whining, they should maybe stop whining so goddamn much. :p Too much negativity is toxic both for the ones spreading it and for the ones who have to listen to it, no matter how justified it supposedly is.
Agreed, but let's not make it a thread about TBP!

QuoteFlat what.

*reads ticket*

... yep, that's what it says, all right. Too many smileys. Jesus Christ, you can't make this shit up. I... it... that... HOW DO THEY NOT REALISE HOW FUCKED UP THIS IS?
Sometimes I suspect that some of them are trolling the site.
But again, let's not make it about TBP.

Quote from: Baeraad;945737I must admit that I once ran what was essentially a Call of Cthulhu scenario with BR. Complete with blasphemous tomes and extra tentacles. Oh, and the sorcerous villain was impersonating one of the backward [strike]New England Puritans[/strike] Jarzoni villagers by means of a Flesh Shaping ritual that involved flaying the skin off of the person he was going to turn into and stitching it onto himself. :D There is room for grimdark if you want it, is what I'm saying - and the overall cutesiness of the setting tends to make it stand out all the more.
I've been known to play such games, too;)!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 16, 2017, 12:05:05 AM
Quote from: AsenRG;945855That's the thing. The certainty bores me.

I see. That's a matter of taste, then... but I should point out that being certain of the ultimate victory of the Light is a very academic comfort right here and now when a monster is chewing on your leg. The Empire of Thorns fell in the end, but not until after several generations had lived and died knowing nothing but hardship and oppression. Yes, they were reborn into better times, but that doesn't make the suffering they had to endure any less real.

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Luckily, I've never played Exalted with a GM that adopted that stance.

Well, the same thing applies there in reverse. ;) Eventually you will fall and all your have wrought will come to ruin. But it won't necessarily be next Tuesday. It might be after you have ruled gloriously for a thousand years as the God-King of the greatest empire the world has ever seen.

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Are you sure you're not listening to Exalted fans? Because the fans can be, at times, similar to those of Blue Rose in your description;).

I'm listening mostly to the second edition fluff. I'm aware that the first edition allowed (maybe intended?) for a smaller-scale narrative, though - being a (mortal) wandering monster-hunter in Exalted 1E isn't much different from being a wandering monster-hunter in BR. Except that Creation has more monsters running around that would eat a mortal monster-hunter in a single gulp, I guess, whereas a BR monster-hunter can usually expect to have at least a fighting chance against just about anything he might come across.

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Yeah, but since I generally prefer less magic for the PCs, that's another thing that bores me;).

Well, again, you asked why the setting is different. If the difference is not one that appeals to you, then I'm perfectly willing to accept that. ;)

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Yeah, but again, inherently holy beings are another thing I consider boring (and raises a whole host of hard to resolve questions, for me).

To be sure, Exalted has a much more humanistic setting - we are here, this is now, and nothing has any inherent significance but what we choose to ascribe to it. In BR, some things are simply holy. That doesn't mean that your PC will necessarily care, only that it is possible for things to have value beyond and aside from what human beings ascribe to it.

Again, you might like that or not - it's a matter of taste. But to me BR does scratch an itch that Exalted just doesn't, the one of interacting with a world that's more important than I am - not just bigger and badder, but more important, possessing an inherent significance of its own.

ETA: In fact, sometimes I wonder if a lot of the problem with BR is that it pushes explicitly liberal values (feminism, environmentalism, diversity, etc, etc) but gives implicitly conservative in-setting reasons for them (authority, sanctity, tradition). The result is that it manages to rub everyone the wrong way.

Well, almost everyone. It's a very good game for people who see progress as being the ongoing evolution of tradition, not a rebellion against it - people of a liberal Christian bent, for instance, or those who hold to Aaron-Sorkin-style old-fashioned liberalism. Consider it a specialised taste, I guess. Kind of like marmite. ;)

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Thanks, that was...an evocative description, although again, it doesn't jive with my experience of Creation;)!

Er... that description, on the other hand, is the literal truth, unless they've changed the canon again. The primordials created humans to be small and scared and pray a lot, so that their prayers could empower the primordials' divine minions. Then the humans (along with said divine minions) rebelled and took over a world that was originally created as a primordial playground. That doesn't have any direct effects in play, I'll grant you, but it's part of the underlying assumptions of the setting.

Quote from: AsenRG;945855Those I quoted.
"Just generally, I think my tastes nowadays fall in some kind of uncomfortable middle ground between between old-school (limited rules all around) and bleeding-edge storygames (rules for what you're going to be doing in a narrative, thematic, fundamental sense that isn't affected by boring things like actual objective reality... or something, I can never quite figure out how that's supposed to work)."

"I'm a straightforward person - I want a nice comprehensive setting-simulator that tell me what I can and can't do and lets me decide for myself what, within that range, I actually want to do. So GURPS, Savage Worlds... and, yes, True20, though it's more than a bit messy."

Unless you consider GURPS to be old-school, I don't know how you combine "limited rules", "bleeding edge storyhames" and "comprehensive setting-simulator".

Oh, I think I see the problem. I might have expressed myself badly - I didn't mean that I favoured a combination of all of the above. I just meant, y'know, I don't fall into either the old school camp or the new school camp, I fall into the very lonely camp that still likes 90s-style elaborate rule systems and attempts at realism. Not OD&D and not D&D 4E - I'm fundamentally a D&D 3.5 person. :)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: AsenRG on February 16, 2017, 04:06:33 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945962I see. That's a matter of taste, then... but I should point out that being certain of the ultimate victory of the Light is a very academic comfort right here and now when a monster is chewing on your leg. The Empire of Thorns fell in the end, but not until after several generations had lived and died knowing nothing but hardship and oppression. Yes, they were reborn into better times, but that doesn't make the suffering they had to endure any less real.
It is a matter of taste, like most things RPG-related. That's why I asked you for recommendations - I was wondering whether there's anything I've been missing:).
Seems like there isn't, but that's not your fault:).

QuoteWell, the same thing applies there in reverse. ;)
Of course! That's why I said "luckily". The certainty of an eventual downfall would be equally boring (and meaningless to boot, but it's "boring" I have a greater problem with).

QuoteEventually you will fall and all your have wrought will come to ruin. But it won't necessarily be next Tuesday. It might be after you have ruled gloriously for a thousand years as the God-King of the greatest empire the world has ever seen.
Oh, wait. If you're thinking of that kind of "certainty", I'm willing to take it, actually:D!
Because it's also the one we've got IRL, and I'm willing to run with that one:p.

QuoteI'm listening mostly to the second edition fluff.
...page references?

QuoteI'm aware that the first edition allowed (maybe intended?) for a smaller-scale narrative, though - being a (mortal) wandering monster-hunter in Exalted 1E isn't much different from being a wandering monster-hunter in BR. Except that Creation has more monsters running around that would eat a mortal monster-hunter in a single gulp, I guess, whereas a BR monster-hunter can usually expect to have at least a fighting chance against just about anything he might come across.
I don't believe in challenge levels, either.
So I prepare ways to kill things way above my challenge level. My friends (and relatives) play the same way, and last time a Wyld Hunt went after them, they decimated the hunt... before havign become Exalted:D!

QuoteWell, again, you asked why the setting is different. If the difference is not one that appeals to you, then I'm perfectly willing to accept that. ;)
I'm also willing to accept it. I was just asking because there might be something I was missing.

QuoteTo be sure, Exalted has a much more humanistic setting - we are here, this is now, and nothing has any inherent significance but what we choose to ascribe to it.
Well, some things have intrinsic value, as much as they do in the real world. But let's not go there.

QuoteIn BR, some things are simply holy. That doesn't mean that your PC will necessarily care, only that it is possible for things to have value beyond and aside from what human beings ascribe to it.
According to which one of the gods;)?
And that's just the first of a long list of such questions I have to resolve on order to have "intrinsically holy" stuff. (BTW, you have those in Exalted, too, just in reverse - people that are intrinsically unholy are "creatures of darkness").

QuoteAgain, you might like that or not - it's a matter of taste. But to me BR does scratch an itch that Exalted just doesn't, the one of interacting with a world that's more important than I am - not just bigger and badder, but more important, possessing an inherent significance of its own.
Yeah, got that. It's just an itch I don't have - I decide what is more important than my character, I don't need things to have inherent significance. In fact, it's often an obstacle.

QuoteETA: In fact, sometimes I wonder if a lot of the problem with BR is that it pushes explicitly liberal values (feminism, environmentalism, diversity, etc, etc) but gives implicitly conservative in-setting reasons for them (authority, sanctity, tradition). The result is that it manages to rub everyone the wrong way.

Well, almost everyone. It's a very good game for people who see progress as being the ongoing evolution of tradition, not a rebellion against it - people of a liberal Christian bent, for instance, or those who hold to Aaron-Sorkin-style old-fashioned liberalism. Consider it a specialised taste, I guess. Kind of like marmite.
Unlikely. I see progress as an ongoing revolution of tradition, except where tradition has become too ossified and you need to rebel against it (much less often than some people would like to, though).
BR still bores me.

QuoteEr... that description, on the other hand, is the literal truth, unless they've changed the canon again. The primordials created humans to be small and scared and pray a lot, so that their prayers could empower the primordials' divine minions. Then the humans (along with said divine minions) rebelled and took over a world that was originally created as a primordial playground. That doesn't have any direct effects in play, I'll grant you, but it's part of the underlying assumptions of the setting.
Yeah, but accepting it is like saying "things only have the meaning they were created with".
While I subscribe to the Cyberpunk approach "the street finds its own uses for things". It explains so much about the setting of Exalted;)!
Humans were created as prayer-machines, right. But the gods found their own use for them.

QuoteOh, I think I see the problem. I might have expressed myself badly - I didn't mean that I favoured a combination of all of the above. I just meant, y'know, I don't fall into either the old school camp or the new school camp, I fall into the very lonely camp that still likes 90s-style elaborate rule systems and attempts at realism. Not OD&D and not D&D 4E - I'm fundamentally a D&D 3.5 person.
Well, I can play pretty much everything, but I admit that most of the systems are like have a small core, which carries an elaborate system (that you can decide not to use). And well, you can see my opinion on the value of realism in the realism thread;)! (I wouldn't peg 3.5 as really realistic, mind. Of the games based on it, Spycraft 2.0 achieves much more in that department, despite being cinematic).
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 16, 2017, 04:59:52 AM
Quote from: AsenRG;946002It is a matter of taste, like most things RPG-related. That's why I asked you for recommendations - I was wondering whether there's anything I've been missing:).
Seems like there isn't, but that's not your fault:).

Yeah, I think you understand it well enough and it's just not for you. No worries. :)

Quote from: AsenRG;946002Of course! That's why I said "luckily". The certainty of an eventual downfall would be equally boring (and meaningless to boot, but it's "boring" I have a greater problem with).

Oh, wait. If you're thinking of that kind of "certainty", I'm willing to take it, actually!
Because it's also the one we've got IRL, and I'm willing to run with that one.

Just so! All things end. We manage to know that, and still care about them here and now.

And that works for both good stuff and bad stuff. Like, if I'm going through a rough time personally, then I will usually know that unless it's actually life-threatening, then this too shall pass... but that rarely does much to cheer me up, because it doesn't change the fact that right here and now I still have to deal with whatever crap it is I'm dealing with. And it also doesn't mean I can just lean back and wait for it to be over, because in many cases it will last much longer and be much more painful if I do nothing to work through it than if I actively try to fix the situation.

Quote from: AsenRG;946002...page references?

I'm not sure how to provide a page reference for an overall impression. :confused: I think it's reasonably common criticism of Exalted 2E that it forces more EPIC!!!!-ness into everything, though, to the point of strongly implying that if the PCs weren't trying to conquer a major nation you were playing the game wrong.

Quote from: AsenRG;946002So I prepare ways to kill things way above my challenge level. My friends (and relatives) play the same way, and last time a Wyld Hunt went after them, they decimated the hunt... before havign become Exalted!

That's impressive. :eek: How did they manage it? Did it involve poisoned food or avalanches? Or, ooooh, sending in assassins while they were bathing?

Quote from: AsenRG;946002According to which one of the gods;)?
And that's just the first of a long list of such questions I have to resolve on order to have "intrinsically holy" stuff. (BTW, you have those in Exalted, too, just in reverse - people that are intrinsically unholy are "creatures of darkness").

That's just it - in a setting with intrinsic value, it's not a matter of anyone's opinion or decree. It's intrinsic. You could theoretically develop some sort of device for measuring truth, beauty and goodness. (indeed, the setting actually has one of those...) The exact intricacies of what is and is not valuable may be beyond the ability of regular people to fully understand, and the gods aren't telling (they may not even be capable of explaining it in a way that humans would understand), but it is nonetheless a thing that exists and which would continue to exist even if no sentient beings were there to observe it.

In Exalted, holiness is very much a matter of opinion - the Unconquered Sun's opinion, in this case. And ol' Four-Arms does have some pretty good reasons for settings things up the way he did, but it's still just something one person decided, and that either he or someone of greater power can potentially countermand at any time.

In many ways, the second version is a lot more realistic. Value, inasmuch as it even exists, is an emergent property of the sentient mind, and while there are certain common denominators in what people think is and is not valuable, anything but the broadest strokes are subjective and negotiable. But that's just not very, well, romantic. And BR is after all the storytelling game of romantic fantasy, not the storytelling game of naturalistic fantasy. ;)

Quote from: AsenRG;946002Yeah, but accepting it is like saying "things only have the meaning they were created with".
While I subscribe to the Cyberpunk approach "the street finds its own uses for things". It explains so much about the setting of Exalted;)!
Humans were created as prayer-machines, right. But the gods found their own use for them.

Well, yes. Like I said, that's the appeal of Exalted - for me as well, even if I have other tastes too. It's all about making your own decisions about how things should be. It's about having the world tell you, "stop! You can't do that!" and going "oh yeah? Fucking watch me!" :D
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Gronan of Simmerya on February 16, 2017, 02:46:40 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945555If I see any moors, I will make a point of turning around and walking the other way. ;)

Aroo.

Now get me a beer.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Gronan of Simmerya on February 16, 2017, 02:50:08 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945962I should point out that being certain of the ultimate victory of the Light is a very academic comfort right here and now when a monster is chewing on your leg.

Well said, that lad.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: RunningLaser on February 16, 2017, 03:09:09 PM
Welcome!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Marleycat on February 16, 2017, 09:50:51 PM
Welcome to the insane asylum....and as earlier said, whatever game you love sucks and if it's a game I love you are playing it wrong.:D

Fun fact, I am NOT banned at TBP, weird right?
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Spaceherpes on February 16, 2017, 10:27:16 PM
Welcome, Baeraad! I'm also new here as well. I'm generally more of a lurker than a poster. Hope you don't mind me joining in on your post. I have also become more and more frustrated by the other site. I just got into, we'll say discussion, with some mods. I didn't technically break the rules and never lost my cool, but I'll be surprised if I don't get some red text thrown at me in the next 24 hours.

Quote from: AsenRG;945559Funny, I got threadbanned and warned about a similar comment last night;)!
Oh, and also for excessive use of smilies:). Can you believe that:p? In a forum that limits smilies to 10 per post, people still have issues with someone adding smilies within those limits:D!

LOL. You got admonished for tone policing. I find it incredibly amusing since most of what those mods do is tone police.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Armchair Gamer on February 16, 2017, 10:38:39 PM
Quote from: Spinachcat;945395I'm not a BR fan, but I greatly enjoyed True20 and I don't know why that game line wasn't more popular. We did a couple great campaigns with T20 and I was surprised when it had completely fallen off the radar of most RPGers.

I think it wound up being not d20 enough to leverage the network or support easily, too d20 for those who were tired of that, and fighting Savage Worlds for the same market niche.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 16, 2017, 11:30:57 PM
Quote from: Marleycat;946097whatever game you love sucks and if it's a game I love you are playing it wrong.:D

I pretty much assumed as much. Some things are just inherent to roleplaying discussion. ;)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Black Vulmea on February 17, 2017, 12:22:43 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;945390I've seen a few of these threads around, so I'll take it as a tradition. Hi.
Welcome to the adult swim.

And it's a gawdamn stupid tradition.

Quote from: Baeraad;945390My most commonly played game for the last half a decade has been Blue Rose...
Played before or after you trim your mangina?
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 17, 2017, 01:05:20 AM
Quote from: Black Vulmea;946121Played before or after you trim your mangina?

Preferably after. Having a well-trimmed mangina has top priority.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Black Vulmea on February 17, 2017, 06:07:39 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;946125Preferably after. Having a well-trimmed mangina has top priority.
You stand a better than average chance of fitting in here. Well done.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Xanther on February 17, 2017, 06:41:43 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945396...



Hehe, nah, I'm not banned. It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )

I feel for you, and the same way, and not just at RPGnet but many others, even Old School sites where I share the spirit and contributed, and predate most all of 'em by a decade, but just refuse to drink the cool-aid.  Funny the Forge never banned me they just ignored me and told me I was "wrong" after trotting out an ever shifting menagerie of gobbly-gook theory.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Xanther on February 17, 2017, 06:44:18 PM
Quote from: Spinachcat;945398Of course, their mods troll over here looking for heretics so welcome to the Naughty List!

Do they now!  Those people really don't have a life.  Seriously, don' they have friends, families and jobs?  I need to eeek out time just to post a few places in sporadic manic spurts let alone police other sites.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Matt on February 17, 2017, 08:11:55 PM
Quote from: Xanther;946218Do they now!  Those people really don't have a life.  Seriously, don' they have friends, families and jobs?  I need to eeek out time just to post a few places in sporadic manic spurts let alone police other sites.

I'm sure they have families and jobs that dislike their personalities as much as their former friends did.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: san dee jota on February 21, 2017, 10:18:12 AM
Since it seems relevant, I'm also a newcomer here who jumped ship from there.  I never got a ban that I recall, and only ever got one warning a few years ago (actually staying in the rpg sections of a site devoted to rpgs certainly helped).  

What snapped for me was a while back some guy joined.  He was enthusiastic, passionate, and... a bit annoying.  One of those "what system would you use for this obscure anime/80's cartoon/movie/show I really love" types who'd chime in after the discussion had started, except you might get 12 posts like that a month.  Mods banned him because they said he was posting stuff like this every day and not responding to his posts, and encouraged us to use the search function if we doubted them.

So I did.

And like I said, he posted at worst 12 times in one month, but he also -would- contribute in some of his threads that got traction.  I pointed this out in a thread, and the thread got locked, and it's bugged me ever since.  I never knew the guy, I doubt he'd fit in better here than he did there, but it was just such a shitty way to lie about something to justify kicking them out because they were annoying (not breaking rules, not even being rude, just... annoying).  

Anyway, that's my story.  Hello.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: RunningLaser on February 21, 2017, 10:49:31 AM
Quote from: san dee jota;946830Since it seems relevant, I'm also a newcomer here who jumped ship from there.  I never got a ban that I recall, and only ever got one warning a few years ago (actually staying in the rpg sections of a site devoted to rpgs certainly helped).  

What snapped for me was a while back some guy joined.  He was enthusiastic, passionate, and... a bit annoying.  One of those "what system would you use for this obscure anime/80's cartoon/movie/show I really love" types who'd chime in after the discussion had started, except you might get 12 posts like that a month.  Mods banned him because they said he was posting stuff like this every day and not responding to his posts, and encouraged us to use the search function if we doubted them.

So I did.

And like I said, he posted at worst 12 times in one month, but he also -would- contribute in some of his threads that got traction.  I pointed this out in a thread, and the thread got locked, and it's bugged me ever since.  I never knew the guy, I doubt he'd fit in better here than he did there, but it was just such a shitty way to lie about something to justify kicking them out because they were annoying (not breaking rules, not even being rude, just... annoying).  

Anyway, that's my story.  Hello.

Welcome aboard!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: cranebump on February 21, 2017, 10:56:37 AM
Quote from: san dee jota;946830Since it seems relevant, I'm also a newcomer here who jumped ship from there.  I never got a ban that I recall, and only ever got one warning a few years ago (actually staying in the rpg sections of a site devoted to rpgs certainly helped).  

What snapped for me was a while back some guy joined.  He was enthusiastic, passionate, and... a bit annoying.  One of those "what system would you use for this obscure anime/80's cartoon/movie/show I really love" types who'd chime in after the discussion had started, except you might get 12 posts like that a month.  Mods banned him because they said he was posting stuff like this every day and not responding to his posts, and encouraged us to use the search function if we doubted them.

So I did.

And like I said, he posted at worst 12 times in one month, but he also -would- contribute in some of his threads that got traction.  I pointed this out in a thread, and the thread got locked, and it's bugged me ever since.  I never knew the guy, I doubt he'd fit in better here than he did there, but it was just such a shitty way to lie about something to justify kicking them out because they were annoying (not breaking rules, not even being rude, just... annoying).  

Anyway, that's my story.  Hello.

After what I considered a sketchy reason for bounding me from a thread, I actually PM'ed them and told them to go fuck themselves. Lifetime ban. and worth it!:-)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Voros on February 21, 2017, 11:19:27 AM
After looking over the latest Zakdrama thread I can see the mods there seem very banhappy. If they don't want any heated political discussions why would they even allow the thread? Pretty goofy to keep it open and claim that it is okay for people to defend Zak and then systematically ban everyone who attempts to do so. And with two of the mods being directly involved there's a pretty clear conflict of interest. No wonder forums are on a decline.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 21, 2017, 11:20:58 AM
Quote from: san dee jota;946830Since it seems relevant, I'm also a newcomer here who jumped ship from there.  I never got a ban that I recall, and only ever got one warning a few years ago (actually staying in the rpg sections of a site devoted to rpgs certainly helped).  

What snapped for me was a while back some guy joined.  He was enthusiastic, passionate, and... a bit annoying.  One of those "what system would you use for this obscure anime/80's cartoon/movie/show I really love" types who'd chime in after the discussion had started, except you might get 12 posts like that a month.  Mods banned him because they said he was posting stuff like this every day and not responding to his posts, and encouraged us to use the search function if we doubted them.

So I did.

And like I said, he posted at worst 12 times in one month, but he also -would- contribute in some of his threads that got traction.  I pointed this out in a thread, and the thread got locked, and it's bugged me ever since.  I never knew the guy, I doubt he'd fit in better here than he did there, but it was just such a shitty way to lie about something to justify kicking them out because they were annoying (not breaking rules, not even being rude, just... annoying).  

Anyway, that's my story.

Well, that's shit. :(

I knew another user who got banned. Nicest guy you'd ever meet, all smiles and good cheer, a bit weird and all over the place but just about the most fundamentally harmless person you'd meet. He'd been there for years, too, and contributed in all sorts of ways. But he got his ass permabanned anyway.

Why, you ask? For disruptive and offensive behaviour? No. For triggering someone? Not at all. For telling people to please, please, please stop getting triggered by every single aspect of the universe? If I ever get banned, I'll bet you dollars to donuts that'll be why, but he never seemed to have any trouble avoiding it.

No, he hinted - just hinted - at something in the A Song of Ice and Fire series of books. In a thread devoted to the Game of Thrones TV show.

Permabanned. For very mild spoilers.

I try not to be paranoid, but... I can't help it note that while the guy never told anyone to stop being triggered, he also had a habit of going, "aw, c'mon, it's not that bad!" at people. Like I said, he was one of those super-positive sorts. And that's not against site rules, but it does kind of go against the "the world is a horrible, horrible place and that's why we need to be so vigilant against Bad Elements" philosophy that it runs on. So I have to wonder if that didn't play a part in some way.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: san dee jota on February 21, 2017, 11:42:20 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;946842I try not to be paranoid, but... I can't help it note that while the guy never told anyone to stop being triggered, he also had a habit of going, "aw, c'mon, it's not that bad!" at people. Like I said, he was one of those super-positive sorts. And that's not against site rules, but it does kind of go against the "the world is a horrible, horrible place and that's why we need to be so vigilant against Bad Elements" philosophy that it runs on. So I have to wonder if that didn't play a part in some way.

It's very much a game of favoritism and moving goal posts.  

I'm sure I got away with stuff a new member wouldn't simply because they saw I had thousands of posts, dozens of reviews, and no recent warnings/bans.  And I can see the logic, but it's about as biased as you can get.  And ideally mods should be more impartial than that, but the mods don't want to be impartial.  They want to shape and sculpt things a certain way, and that way changes over time, and changes from mod to mod.

So you have a bunch of cops who basically do what they want, and it's grating.  

By comparison, this place seems pretty much self-moderated, and more civil and easy going for it.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 21, 2017, 01:16:08 PM
Yeah... that's my impression too, unfortunately. They're not enforcing the rules, they're enforcing what they see as the point of the rules, which is to keep the bad people out. Wouldn't want any bad people to slip in just because they managed to obey the letter of the law, would you? And that logic sounds compelling, right up until the point where you're the only one who's still allowed inside and you end up throwing yourself out because you catch yourself thinking that perhaps you shouldn't have thrown everyone else out. :p

As for this place, I'm as new as you are, so I might just not have seen its sordid underbelly yet. :p But yes, so far I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: crkrueger on February 21, 2017, 01:38:33 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;946865I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.
Oh that'll change. :D
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Skywalker on February 21, 2017, 02:06:43 PM
Quote from: san dee jota;946830Anyway, that's my story.  Hello.

Nice to see you here, SDJ.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 21, 2017, 02:28:36 PM
Quote from: CRKrueger;946867Oh that'll change. :D

Hush, you. Let me keep my comforting delusions for as long as I can. :p
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: san dee jota on February 21, 2017, 03:47:12 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;946865As for this place, I'm as new as you are, so I might just not have seen its sordid underbelly yet. :p But yes, so far I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.

I'm honestly thinking it's like the difference between attending a formal event and jumping in a mosh pit.  I'm not saying one is better than the other, but people tend to prefer one or the other.
 
Another way to look at it: at my table we tell jokes about sodomy, and once encouraged a player to try to go out in public and explain how "niggardly" has no etymological relation to another word (I mean, he was absolutely right when he brought it up, so what harm could it do to him?).  Just typing that elsewhere would probably get me at least a warning from the mod staff, here... we'll see how good a fit I am (*rolls on FATAL anal circumference tables*).
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Tristram Evans on February 21, 2017, 04:16:51 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;946865But yes, so far I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.

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Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Gronan of Simmerya on February 21, 2017, 04:55:19 PM
Where's my damn beer?
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Marleycat on February 21, 2017, 10:00:09 PM
Quote from: Gronan of Simmerya;946908Where's my damn beer?

In your refrigerator I'd imagine, unless you get off your old and fat ass to walk over to it and get it yourself? I just assume you're fat, but I know you're old and irrelevant to my gaming experience and opinions. I figure you have to be at legal retirement age and still playing a game created 40+ years ago and believing it's scripture like The Bible?
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Marleycat on February 21, 2017, 10:09:15 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;946842Well, that's shit. :(

I knew another user who got banned. Nicest guy you'd ever meet, all smiles and good cheer, a bit weird and all over the place but just about the most fundamentally harmless person you'd meet. He'd been there for years, too, and contributed in all sorts of ways. But he got his ass permabanned anyway.

Why, you ask? For disruptive and offensive behaviour? No. For triggering someone? Not at all. For telling people to please, please, please stop getting triggered by every single aspect of the universe? If I ever get banned, I'll bet you dollars to donuts that'll be why, but he never seemed to have any trouble avoiding it.

No, he hinted - just hinted - at something in the A Song of Ice and Fire series of books. In a thread devoted to the Game of Thrones TV show.

Permabanned. For very mild spoilers.

I try not to be paranoid, but... I can't help it note that while the guy never told anyone to stop being triggered, he also had a habit of going, "aw, c'mon, it's not that bad!" at people. Like I said, he was one of those super-positive sorts. And that's not against site rules, but it does kind of go against the "the world is a horrible, horrible place and that's why we need to be so vigilant against Bad Elements" philosophy that it runs on. So I have to wonder if that didn't play a part in some way.

Quote from: Baeraad;946865Yeah... that's my impression too, unfortunately. They're not enforcing the rules, they're enforcing what they see as the point of the rules, which is to keep the bad people out. Wouldn't want any bad people to slip in just because they managed to obey the letter of the law, would you? And that logic sounds compelling, right up until the point where you're the only one who's still allowed inside and you end up throwing yourself out because you catch yourself thinking that perhaps you shouldn't have thrown everyone else out. :p

As for this place, I'm as new as you are, so I might just not have seen its sordid underbelly yet. :p But yes, so far I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.

Interesting take. It isn't polite or friendly, it's the Old West. If you have a gun and can use it you're fine. If you're an SJW or worse, you will have problems. Despite Rincewind and a couple others like Jim with a cowboy hat from Asia/Singapore/Oceania that prefer hanging out in the few pure politics threads aside. It's more open and less hidden wordplay or straight war if you buy into Rincewind's bullshit? I don't, so it isn't faux friendly like the Big Purple. It's all about "you like it? So tell me why... and don't be mad if I hate it.... or you didn't explain it clearly".
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Charon's Little Helper on February 21, 2017, 10:49:27 PM
Quote from: Baeraad;945396Hehe, nah, I'm not banned. It's just that in order to stay non-banned, I keep finding myself having to bite my tongue so hard that I think it's left permanent teeth marks. :p Spending a little less time there and a little more time somewhere where I won't have to worry about getting threadbanned for using the word "whining" might be good for my blood pressure, is my theory.

(I happen to think that my use of the word "whining" was not only justified but bipartisan, too! To be specific, I said that everyone, regardless of outlook, could stand to stop whining about not every game being perfectly adjusted to their taste. This, it turns out, was not popular with the local powers that be. :p )

+1 to this.  I got warned off for saying that it was silly to worry about racism against fantasy creatures.  I figure that I should lay low for awhile. >.<  (Maybe it was my joke about Santa violating workers' rights against the elves.)

I guess there is no sarcasm allowed.  Which is bad - because 30-40% of my communication is in sarcasm.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Gronan of Simmerya on February 22, 2017, 12:21:32 AM
Quote from: Marleycat;946941In your refrigerator I'd imagine, unless you get off your old and fat ass to walk over to it and get it yourself? I just assume you're fat, but I know you're old and irrelevant to my gaming experience and opinions. I figure you have to be at legal retirement age and still playing a game created 40+ years ago and believing it's scripture like The Bible?

Drink soup made from the brown crusty patches in my underpants, asshole.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Herne's Son on February 22, 2017, 12:40:10 AM
Quote from: Marleycat;946941In your refrigerator I'd imagine, unless you get off your old and fat ass to walk over to it and get it yourself? I just assume you're fat, but I know you're old and irrelevant to my gaming experience and opinions. I figure you have to be at legal retirement age and still playing a game created 40+ years ago and believing it's scripture like The Bible?

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Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Marleycat on February 22, 2017, 12:44:43 AM
Quote from: Gronan of Simmerya;946951Drink soup made from the brown crusty patches in my underpants, asshole.

Weaksauace RPG.Net bitch. You bore me old man, I suggest you modernize, and up your game you Tangency fuck. At least I still go under the same name at both sites and never grovel at either of them Old Geezer or ripoff Conan name? Take your choice because I will disrespect any choice you pick. Unless you up your game pee hole boy.
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Baeraad on February 22, 2017, 01:12:10 AM
I'm somewhat amused at how desperate everyone is to clear themselves of my unfounded accusations of civility... :p

Quote from: san dee jota;946893I'm honestly thinking it's like the difference between attending a formal event and jumping in a mosh pit.

I dunno. I mean, the mosh pit part might be accurate, that remains to be seen. But rpg.net, a formal event? No - a formal event requires decorum and civility from everyone attending it. The kind of freakouts that are explicitly protected (I would go so far as to say, encouraged) at rpg.net wouldn't fly at a fancy dinner. It'd be like, "I say, Humphrey, compose yourself! This kind of behaviour is most unbecoming of a gentleman!" :p

Quote from: Marleycat;946942Interesting take. It isn't polite or friendly, it's the Old West. If you have a gun and can use it you're fine.

Funnily enough, I've been thinking about rpg.net as the Old West - but when I think about the Old West, I don't think about rugged gunslingers settling their differences one on one, I think about posses and lynch mobs forming at the drop of a hat, and about brimstone preachers and corrupt sheriffs whipping the townsfolk into a frenzy against anyone who doesn't fit in. Frontier justice. Mob rule. The best way to avoid being strung up is to be the one who's first to call for someone else to be strung up.

... yeah, I apparently have a lot of bitterness on the subject.

Quote from: Marleycat;946942It's all about "you like it? So tell me why... and don't be mad if I hate it.... or you didn't explain it clearly".

That I can live with. I tend to pretty much assume that everyone hates whatever I like - or at least that they think I like it for all the wrong reasons. I'm always surprised when someone agrees with me, it just feels unnatural somehow. :p
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Marleycat on February 22, 2017, 01:41:40 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;946957I'm somewhat amused at how desperate everyone is to clear themselves of my unfounded accusations of civility... :p



I dunno. I mean, the mosh pit part might be accurate, that remains to be seen. But rpg.net, a formal event? No - a formal event requires decorum and civility from everyone attending it. The kind of freakouts that are explicitly protected (I would go so far as to say, encouraged) at rpg.net wouldn't fly at a fancy dinner. It'd be like, "I say, Humphrey, compose yourself! This kind of behaviour is most unbecoming of a gentleman!" :p



Funnily enough, I've been thinking about rpg.net as the Old West - but when I think about the Old West, I don't think about rugged gunslingers settling their differences one on one, I think about posses and lynch mobs forming at the drop of a hat, and about brimstone preachers and corrupt sheriffs whipping the townsfolk into a frenzy against anyone who doesn't fit in. Frontier justice. Mob rule. The best way to avoid being strung up is to be the one who's first to call for someone else to be strung up.

... yeah, I apparently have a lot of bitterness on the subject.



That I can live with. I tend to pretty much assume that everyone hates whatever I like - or at least that they think I like it for all the wrong reasons. I'm always surprised when someone agrees with me, it just feels unnatural somehow. :p
Welcome to the Old West(TheRPGSiite). This site is more about one on one, not mob rule like TBP. We all hate everything that isn't our preference. Just be real Honey.:)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Spinachcat on February 22, 2017, 03:04:14 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;946957I'm somewhat amused at how desperate everyone is to clear themselves of my unfounded accusations of civility... :p

:)

You're gonna fit right in!
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: Opaopajr on February 22, 2017, 07:10:22 AM
Quote from: Baeraad;946957I'm somewhat amused at how desperate everyone is to clear themselves of my unfounded accusations of civility... :p

Oh not at all! I'm actually nice! :) Come sit by me and we can people watch here in peace.

(:o I'm just infectious crazy. But don't tell everyone! They think they're catching on. Little do they know this is me roleplaying being sane! :D)
Title: Another newcomer saying hi
Post by: AsenRG on February 22, 2017, 09:29:18 AM
Quote from: san dee jota;946830Since it seems relevant, I'm also a newcomer here who jumped ship from there.  I never got a ban that I recall, and only ever got one warning a few years ago (actually staying in the rpg sections of a site devoted to rpgs certainly helped).  

What snapped for me was a while back some guy joined.  He was enthusiastic, passionate, and... a bit annoying.  One of those "what system would you use for this obscure anime/80's cartoon/movie/show I really love" types who'd chime in after the discussion had started, except you might get 12 posts like that a month.  Mods banned him because they said he was posting stuff like this every day and not responding to his posts, and encouraged us to use the search function if we doubted them.

So I did.

And like I said, he posted at worst 12 times in one month, but he also -would- contribute in some of his threads that got traction.  I pointed this out in a thread, and the thread got locked, and it's bugged me ever since.  I never knew the guy, I doubt he'd fit in better here than he did there, but it was just such a shitty way to lie about something to justify kicking them out because they were annoying (not breaking rules, not even being rude, just... annoying).  

Anyway, that's my story.  Hello.
Welcome to the adult swim;)!

Quote from: cranebump;946837After what I considered a sketchy reason for bounding me from a thread, I actually PM'ed them and told them to go fuck themselves. Lifetime ban. and worth it!:-)
I'm yet to decide whether it's worth it, but I can understand both stances:).

Quote from: Baeraad;946842Well, that's shit. :(

I knew another user who got banned. Nicest guy you'd ever meet, all smiles and good cheer, a bit weird and all over the place but just about the most fundamentally harmless person you'd meet. He'd been there for years, too, and contributed in all sorts of ways. But he got his ass permabanned anyway.

Why, you ask? For disruptive and offensive behaviour? No. For triggering someone? Not at all. For telling people to please, please, please stop getting triggered by every single aspect of the universe? If I ever get banned, I'll bet you dollars to donuts that'll be why, but he never seemed to have any trouble avoiding it.

No, he hinted - just hinted - at something in the A Song of Ice and Fire series of books. In a thread devoted to the Game of Thrones TV show.

Permabanned. For very mild spoilers.

I try not to be paranoid, but... I can't help it note that while the guy never told anyone to stop being triggered, he also had a habit of going, "aw, c'mon, it's not that bad!" at people. Like I said, he was one of those super-positive sorts. And that's not against site rules, but it does kind of go against the "the world is a horrible, horrible place and that's why we need to be so vigilant against Bad Elements" philosophy that it runs on. So I have to wonder if that didn't play a part in some way.
I try not to be paranoid, too. But when "it's not that bad" starts amounting to bucking the party line, something is seriously fucked up.

Quote from: san dee jota;946848It's very much a game of favoritism and moving goal posts.  

I'm sure I got away with stuff a new member wouldn't simply because they saw I had thousands of posts, dozens of reviews, and no recent warnings/bans.  And I can see the logic, but it's about as biased as you can get.  And ideally mods should be more impartial than that, but the mods don't want to be impartial.  They want to shape and sculpt things a certain way, and that way changes over time, and changes from mod to mod.

So you have a bunch of cops who basically do what they want, and it's grating.  

By comparison, this place seems pretty much self-moderated, and more civil and easy going for it.
Probably the best description of TBP. Not so true on this site,though, as I see you had had the opportunity to notice:D!

Quote from: Baeraad;946865Yeah... that's my impression too, unfortunately. They're not enforcing the rules, they're enforcing what they see as the point of the rules, which is to keep the bad people out. Wouldn't want any bad people to slip in just because they managed to obey the letter of the law, would you? And that logic sounds compelling, right up until the point where you're the only one who's still allowed inside and you end up throwing yourself out because you catch yourself thinking that perhaps you shouldn't have thrown everyone else out. :p

As for this place, I'm as new as you are, so I might just not have seen its sordid underbelly yet. :p But yes, so far I'm finding it surprisingly polite and friendly.
It's friendly like a bar where punching someone would lead to like retribution. Everyone is friendly, right until that changes, and then things go rapidly downhills;).
OTOH, nobody has been punched because of mouthing off to another poster, at least to the best of my knowledge.

Quote from: san dee jota;946893I'm honestly thinking it's like the difference between attending a formal event and jumping in a mosh pit.  I'm not saying one is better than the other, but people tend to prefer one or the other.
 
Another way to look at it: at my table we tell jokes about sodomy, and once encouraged a player to try to go out in public and explain how "niggardly" has no etymological relation to another word (I mean, he was absolutely right when he brought it up, so what harm could it do to him?).  Just typing that elsewhere would probably get me at least a warning from the mod staff, here... we'll see how good a fit I am (*rolls on FATAL anal circumference tables*).
I am saying one is better than the other;).