Well, for a couple of reasons, this thread is part of the problem in American politics. First, it treats compromise as if it is always the best resolution of a problem, when that is not always the case. Let's say I want to rape your 4 daughters. You don't want me to rape your daughters at all. Is the proper resolution to this letting me rape two of them? Sometimes the "middle" is just as wrong as the extremes.
Fifty years ago, democrats and republicans both believed in the American Dream. They believed that America offered the best possible outcome for its citizens, compared to any other country or culture. They were all American Exceptionalists. They saw American culture and its ethos as a force for good in the world. They just differed on how that ethos was to be spread, safeguarded, and extended to all of its citizens (and immigrants). Both sides believed in the great melting pot.
Now, both sides do NOT share a common vision of what America should be. One sides hates the American Dream, calls it racist, sexist, and bigoted, believes it is illegitimate and evil at its founding. One side no longer believes that immigrants should be assimilated into American culture; in fact, they believe that immigrant cultures are equal to or better than American culture. One side no longer accepts the institutions of America, the law, the self-reliance, the freedom of speech. Are you suggesting that I should compromise with those who say I can't state what I see as a biological fact, because it might hurt the feelings of some dude who wishes he was a chick? That's "reconciliation"? Sounds a lot more like "capitulation"...
And third, with all due respect, as an immigrant you need to shut the fuck up. You left your country and your culture. If your country or culture had anything to offer, then you should have stuck it out there. Most of the ideas that have caused the degradation of American culture are foreign in origin to begin with. Europeans invented fascism, communism, socialism, the welfare state. They invented speech codes, disarmed their populations, and yoked themselves with an unelected aristocracy to give them orders. The communists managed to infiltrate the universities and media to bring that garbage over here (and it poisoned us, so that we have still declined long after the Soviets have fallen). If you had any sense or self-awareness, you might have recognized that, maybe, you should learn about what we do here, how we think, live, prosper, before you butt your nose in with ill-informed opinions. Learn to be an American before you tell us what we need to do. We've got enough "help" from our immigrants... we don't need any more of your culture...