You got caught lying lots of times in a row. You didn't apologize or admit it and instead are trying to change the subject. Doing that is like randomly kicking a dog in the face--once you do that, your "points" you think you're making don't matter to any rational person.
I'm afraid you're mistaken. I said you were an asshole. I can quote myself saying you're an asshole lots of times in this thread. I've provided examples of why and how you're an asshole. I've pointed out that your claims to 'rebut' my assertions instead only prove that you're an asshole because I say something to the effect of 'assholes be like dat' and then you come in immediately and post exactly what I'm describing as behavior that describes an asshole.
I also haven't kicked any dogs in the face. So I don't know why you think my 'points' don't matter to any rational person. But unlike you, I don't try to decide what reasonable people can or should believe. Instead I explain my position and let them come to their own conclusion. More on that below.
Zak S., you're an asshole because of
consistency of behavior. I make a lot of allowances for other people. Sometimes someone acts like a jerk but they didn't mean to. Everyone has a bad day. Sometimes they legitimately weren't aware of your presence (like when they cut you off). It's easy to describe that type of behavior as someone being an asshole. But if we got a chance to know the person, walk a mile in their shoes, we might find that our initial impression was a mistake. They might be a generally good person who either came off badly in a single exchange or were distracted by some serious shit and had a momentary lapse in manners.
You've asked me to quote you being an asshole (and I have), but one part of the challenge is that any individual statement might appear as misreading or representing tone. Especially in a written medium, that can be a challenge. A statement like 'is that what you're going to wear?' could be a legitimate question without any judgement perhaps to make sure you don't wear the same outfit or dress similarly. But it could also be a diss making fun of someone's fashion sense. How can one be sure? Well, normally you can't be sure. But when a behavior is repeated enough, and you're called on it over and over, you can be reasonably certain that someone is continuing that behavior because they're an asshole.
So it is with you. You have been called out for being dismissive many times. You have been called out for redefining terms to your advantage many times. You have been called out for arguing one point then claiming to have been arguing the opposite the entire time and people should just ask you for clarification instead of disagreeing with you. I have linked to these examples, but because it requires reading 40+ pages of comments to fully understand context it's not easy or reasonable to demand that someone show you the single comment that proves, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you're an asshole.
Fortunately, I don't need to do that. When I call you an asshole, that's a statement of opinion. You can claim that I'm not entitled to my opinion, or that my opinion is not based on sufficient evidence to meet your standards, but it is clear that your standards of what makes YOU as asshole are unreasonably high. I expect that there is no standard of evidence that you'd agree to accept to accede that you are, in fact, an asshole. And that's okay. As much as I would like you to show even the smallest amount of self-reflection and personal improvement, you've also shown that you can't stand any criticism and are automatically defensive and resort to scorched earth attacks.
It's my belief that just about everyone that has interacted with you in places like this now sees that your 'argument' comes out to 'I know you are but what am I'. Dealing with someone who responds in that way requires infinite patience or dropping it because there is no prospect of changing their mind - and of course it does nothing to deflect the accusation outside of a 3rd grade mentality. But I think it's really important that you understand that I continue to think you're an asshole, I continue to provide descriptions of what I consider assholish behavior, I continue to show that you act in that manner, and I haven't kicked any dogs in the face (which wouldn't necessarily mean that I'm not right even if it does mean that I'm also an asshole), so it would be another example of you being an asshole if you try to respond by saying something to the effect of 'I've already responded to all your comments' (you haven't), or 'he's already proven that his comments mean nothing because he's a big meanie' (that's an opinion you can have
for yourself, but
not on behalf of the whole world).