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Break Saturday: Obligatory Transgender-sex Edition

Started by RPGPundit, March 25, 2017, 04:04:09 PM

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Snowman0147

Quote from: Ratman_tf;953721I think it's more likely stemming from the bizzaro idea that biological sex is a social construct.

A bizzaro deadly idea as it caused a man to commit suicide.

Nexus

#16
I've seen gay/lesbians that stated they don't want to have sex with someone with physical anatomy of their non preferred gender accused of being Transphobic. Straights that say they don't want to watch or couldn't perform sexually with someone of their sex due to finding the idea off putting even gross called homophobic despite them being vocal and active supporters or homosexual civil rights in all other respects and the "Everyone is Bi some are just more honest about it than others" bit.

And then comes the various accusations about preferring and disliking specific features or body types.

I guess some people find the idea of that  others might not want to have sex with them based purely or primarily on their physical make up unbearable so feel the need to vilify those people. Its likely always been true but like so much else this age of mass communication has shined a spot light on it.

Edit: Well, if nothing else that gender symbol chart will be of use in a friend's GURPS Transhuman Space game.

Edit: Tying a little more back to ther topic of the article, I've seen transphobic arguments directed at straight/homosexuals that weren't sexually interested in Trans individuals that made no effort at all to present themselves as their preferred gender aside from possibly dressing at it such as male to female with full beards. Its gender as a social/emotional construct taken to its full extent. Its totally what's inside that matters so the focusing on the external is shallow and "bigoted".
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

Nexus

#17
Quote from: Tristram Evans;953691Holy crap is that fucked up.

It is very fucked up but on a tangentially related idea: the potential for violent reactions is one of the reasons I think what the "common wisdom" in the Trans community that withholding their nature from intimate partners until after the fact is fine isn't safe advice. Violence is in no way justified but its not wise to set a potential bad scenario.
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

Nexus

Quote from: Rincewind1;953704There was a pretty famous recent case of Transsexual Panic Defence in Texas, I believe, over a prostitute. About 2-3 years from what I remember ago.

Off topic: Rincewind, your PM box is full.
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

Nexus

Quote from: Spinachcat;953753"Schroedinger's Pseudoscience" is a GREAT term!! Kudos for that one!

I wonder how many people are still impressed with all the name calling. You are a -ist if you don't agree with this. You are a -phobic if you don't agree with that. I wonder if that shit impresses anyone outside their own echo chamber. Maybe the name calling is powerful? I don't know.

I just watched a medical video on the creation of Frankenpussy. It's an amazing surgery, especially the ability to re-purpose the various bits.  Apparently, it works well enough for some people to make some monkey slapping good times. There was always been a chicks with dicks fandom in porn (its a lucrative niche-market), and in various clubs since the ancient times.

It is a fascinating procedure and usually fully functional sexually, providing appropriate sensations, extremely painful to recuperate from as I understand which is why some Transgender women don't go through with it. I recall that Female to Male GRS isn't nearly as complete, being mostly cosmetic. Which makes sense given how human sexes develop.
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

Ulairi

Quote from: Nexus;953816It is very fucked up but on a tangentially related idea: the potential for violate reactions is one of the reasons I think what the "common wisdom" in the Trans community that withholding their nature from intimate partners until after the fact is fine isn't safe advice. Violence is in no way justified but its not wise to set a potential bad scenario.

If they are honest and upfront about their actual sex to potential partners it doesn't allow their allusion to exist.

Trond


Tristram Evans

Quote from: Nexus;953816It is very fucked up but on a tangentially related idea: the potential for violate reactions is one of the reasons I think what the "common wisdom" in the Trans community that withholding their nature from intimate partners until after the fact is fine isn't safe advice. Violence is in no way justified but its not wise to set a potential bad scenario.

I see no justification for violence, but not telling someone until after you've been intimate? Thats dishonest enough to border on rape.

Warboss Squee

Quote from: Tristram Evans;953847I see no justification for violence, but not telling someone until after you've been intimate? Thats dishonest enough to border on rape.

Going by the feminist "sex under false pretenses" it is rape.

Nexus

Quote from: Trond;953839Blaire White made a video on the same thing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HVS5kGU1Joo

Interesting. I'd never heard of her before.
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

Nexus

Quote from: Warboss Squee;953849Going by the feminist "sex under false pretenses" it is rape.

"Your right to make informed choices about your body ends where my desires/feelings begin (because I don't agree with your opinions)."
Remember when Illinois Nazis where a joke in the Blue Brothers movie?

Democracy, meh? (538)

 "The salient fact of American politics is that there are fifty to seventy million voters each of whom will volunteer to live, with his family, in a cardboard box under an overpass, and cook sparrows on an old curtain rod, if someone would only guarantee that the black, gay, Hispanic, liberal, whatever, in the next box over doesn't even have a curtain rod, or a sparrow to put on it."

dsivis

Quote from: Snowman0147;953786A bizzaro deadly idea as it caused a man to commit suicide.

Come again?
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Brand55

Quote from: Nexus;953858Interesting. I'd never heard of her before.
Blaire is great, and she's probably the only rational trans Youtuber I've seen (I'm sure there are others, but I don't watch enough Youtube to know 'em). She's only been making videos for a bit over a year, I think, and already some of the crazies there have accused her of not being trans at all as a way of trying to discredit her opinions.

jhkim

Quote from: Rincewind1;953704There was a pretty famous recent case of Transsexual Panic Defence in Texas, I believe, over a prostitute. About 2-3 years from what I remember ago.
There was Islan Nettles who was beaten to death in New York in 2013 whose killer was only indicted in 2015, and Jennifer Laude killed by a US Marine in the Philippines in 2014 - both used a version of panic defense. Neither of those were in Texas or involved a prostitute, though.

This is relevant to the larger point because there is a huge gap between "someone on the Internet told me I was transphobic for a dumb reason" and "someone beat me to death and justified it in court". I think the latter indicates that there is a far more serious problem on that side.

Ratman_tf

Quote from: Brand55;953875Blaire is great, and she's probably the only rational trans Youtuber I've seen (I'm sure there are others, but I don't watch enough Youtube to know 'em). She's only been making videos for a bit over a year, I think, and already some of the crazies there have accused her of not being trans at all as a way of trying to discredit her opinions.

Theryn Meyer is another good one. She and Blair have done a few videos together.
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