Acid test: You are designing, developing, and testing the game. It becomes clear that the best way to do something and explain it could be mistaken for "woke" on a surface examination, even though that's more about the woke crowd bastardizing vocabulary than anything else. That is, the best way to do it could be spun as "woke" even though that has nothing to do with your analysis. Do you do the best thing or not? If you don't, congratulations, you've just made your game worse than it could be chasing what should be a secondary or even tertiary goal.
It's more than a little like the "let the dice fall where they may" thing. There's all kinds of seductive reasons to avoid it, and some shallow benefits to avoiding it, but if you really want to have a good game, you violate it at your peril. Make a good game. If it happens to offend some segment of the woke, that's a bonus. Besides, in the course of making a good game, it's practically impossible to not offend the shallow, easily offended crowd. So you probably get the bonus without even trying.