Wokes are like children testing their parents' strength of character; seeing how far they can get with their tantrum. Give them an inch and you'll have them banning people for not worshipping a gay couple. Stop them in their tracks, otherwise they'll feel enabled.
I think this is a dangerous analogy. Wokesters are intelligent, dedicated adults. They're more likely to be psychopaths and fanatics, not children. I'm concerned that down playing their mental faculties leads to underestimating the harm they can do.
I don't think they qualify as intelligent by any standard; they don't produce anything of value, they create problems rather than solving them, they have delusional views completely dettached from reality, they have zero consistency in terms of values, lack individual thought, they bring down successful franchises, have dysfunctional, unfulfilling lifestyles, can't play a game without breaking down due to microaggressions and need to drag other people down to their level. However, they are psychopathic, manipulative, dishonest, spiteful, resentful, cruel and act like a hivemind fueled by hatred of their parents shaped by indoctrination mechanisms.
Their sole existence depends on millionaires and billionaires funding them in spite of their constant failure and politicians keeping them alive for their own gain. They need to ban people en masse, block comments, get people fired, social shaming, state coercion, manipulation of the news, lying and cheating so that normal people won't call them out and utterly destroy their narrative.
That being said, the average woke lady is probably just "shit testing" you to get a reaction. Don't give it to her. Don't engage. Laugh it off and carry on.