No, I actually am intellectually honest and think its a bad mindset to be in the first place. Fuck it, Il say its a weak form of thought. Wrongthink in my opinion.
OK, so we agree you're firmly in 1984 mode now. Someone has committed a thoughtcrime.
Just as much as you judge me for thinking Wrong. Everything has a degree of judging thought and intention. So get off your high horse.
Oh no, simple disagreement is not in fact what's going on here. You're doing more than judging it not your thing and stupid.
"I think the rule is stupid and would not use it as a houserule in my game" is disagreement.
"I think expressing this opinion is dangerous because others might hear that opinion, agree with it, and do more with it leading to the bad opinion growing, and so we must stop the opinion from spreading like a cancer before that happens" is what you're doing.
You'd be fine if someone used this houserule quietly on their own, but their sin was expressing this opinion in the open where others can talk about it and agree with it and tell others about it. You appear to think it's your duty to stop the wrongthink from spreading to others who might like it. That is not simple disagreement. That's you trying to stop the growth of something which runs contrary to your political orthodoxy. That's political correctness.
I don't believe in acting based around thought, but I'm sure as shit allowed to judge somebody for their thought process. Which is again what your doing to me.
Of course you are. But you're not just judging it. You're taking the authoritarian politically correct "stop the wrongthink from spreading!" stance. There are tons and tons and tons of houserules out there that people talk about that you disagree with and think are stupid and nonsense. But you don't rant about them like it's an issue of ethics for society. No this is not just judgement. I don't know if you're just not admitting to yourself what this is or just being disingenuous.
It would be nice if you stopped the bullshit "I just disagree with this houserule" nonsense. That is not what you're doing my man. Simple houserule disagreement does not get a half dozen videos and multiple threads and this level of rage and personal attacks against anyone who says they like the houserule. Naw, this is what political correctness looks like. It's just uncomfortable for you to consider the possibility you're engaging in the very thing you've opposed for so many years.
For example, I said I liked the houserule, I explained why, it's based on a very long established issue I have with 5e that this addresses, I expanded on it in different ways some of which have little to do with wheelchairs, etc.. And I got personally attacked for it, it's assumed I like it for bad motives, and it's assumed everything I am saying about it must be a lie and my reasons must be nefarious and secret signalling (though it's completely unclear who here I'd be signalling). THAT is what political correctness looks like - it's not judgement about the houserule, it's judgement of sin for my liking a Dangerous Idea Which Must Be Stopped At All Costs.
And my usual response stands: Fuck your orthodoxy.