We're go for spoilers on Episode 5.
Man, that shot of Vader force-grabbing a starship looked every bit as terrible as the similar shot in Rise of Skywalker. Except that they also screwed up the scale of the ship so that it looked half-sized.
No, you should not be able to ground a starship with the force. If you try it, at best the ship should take off with you in tow.
Tearing the hatches off, on the other hand, looked pretty great.
Maybe if Vader had been able to force-choke the pilot?
Also, getting run through with a lightsaber should be pretty much a death sentence. Now we have both the Grand Inquisitor and Reva (presumably) surviving it.
I guess Qui-Gon Jin just wasn't that tough?