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Building an emotionally safe environment

Started by droog, September 20, 2007, 06:50:58 PM

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Seanchai

Quote from: John MorrowI'm trying to keep this message board from looking (any more) like RPGPundits home for lawncrappers, mouth breathers, and people who don't have the good sense or good taste not to use obscene emoticons on a public message board.

Good luck.

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Quote from: John MorrowI'm trying to keep this message board from looking (any more) like RPGPundits home for lawncrappers, mouth breathers, and people who don't have the good sense or good taste not to use obscene emoticons on a public message board.  As I said elsewhere, it's kinda hypocritical to be complaining about the lawncrappers in this hobby when you entertain guests squatting in your front lawn, pants around their ankles, with pile of crap under them.
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Tee-hee!  Typical figurative imagery of the patriarchy.

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John Morrow

Quote from: TonyLBHeaven preserve us from selfless people with no motive but the moral improvement of others.

You guys are really stuck in a rut, aren't you?  You should try going into politics.
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laffingboy

As a victim of childhood bullying which left me deeply emotionally scarred to this day, I fully support Droogs' emotional-safety initiative. As a show of my support, I've decided to form a special-interest group, a pack if you will, composed of like-minded posters: the Friends Understanding Droog's Gentle Emotions; the F.U.D.G.E-Pack.

By working together, we'll be able to lobby for the changes required to create the emotionally safe space we crave, the warm electronic womb which will be our refuge from jocks, bullies, hot chicks, cops, soldiers, D20 players, Republicans, Americans, and other shitnozzle assclowns.

We will have a special signature, to differentiate us from the less enlightened. I will petition the Mods (we'll need many) to banhammerinate any who use the special signature in a hurtful fashion. A special subforum will also be required, like a safe version of Off Topic; it must have a quirky name.
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Ian Absentia

Quote from: laffingboyAs a victim of childhood bullying which left me deeply emotionally scarred to this day...
Whatever, dude.  Your avatar intimidates me with its implicit violence, and I resent it deeply.

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laffingboy

Quote from: Ian AbsentiaWhatever, dude.  Your avatar intimidates me with its implicit violence, and I resent it deeply.

!i!

Can't you see I'm overcompensating?

Also, the pretty barista at Starbucks was just totally a bitch to me. Hugs and vibes, please. :(
The only thing I ever believed in the Bible was John 11:35.

The Good Assyrian

Quote from: laffingboyBy working together, we'll be able to lobby for the changes required to create the emotionally safe space we crave, the warm electronic womb which will be our refuge from jocks, bullies, hot chicks, cops, soldiers, D20 players, Republicans, Americans, and other shitnozzle assclowns.

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John Morrow

Quote from: laffingboyBy working together, we'll be able to lobby for the changes required to create the emotionally safe space we crave, the warm electronic womb which will be our refuge from jocks, bullies, hot chicks, cops, soldiers, D20 players, Republicans, Americans, and other shitnozzle assclowns.

Isn't one Daily Kos on the internet enough?
Robin Laws\' Game Styles Quiz Results:
Method Actor 100%, Butt-Kicker 75%, Tactician 42%, Storyteller 33%, Power Gamer 33%, Casual Gamer 33%, Specialist 17%

Ian Absentia

Quote from: laffingboyAlso, the pretty barista at Starbucks was just totally a bitch to me. Hugs and vibes, please. :(
Punch her in the ovaries.  Totally.

!i!

HinterWelt

Quote from: laffingboyBy working together, we'll be able to lobby for the changes required to create the emotionally safe space we crave, the warm electronic womb which will be our refuge from jocks, bullies, hot chicks, cops, soldiers, D20 players, Republicans, Americans, and other shitnozzle assclowns.

Just where the hell do you think you are?!?!?!?!?
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Quote from: laffingboyAlso, the pretty barista at Starbucks was just totally a bitch to me. Hugs and vibes, please. :(

You should kill her and take her stuff.
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Brantai

Quote from: John MorrowIsn't one Daily Kos on the internet enough?
No?

droog

All I can say is that I'm utterly dismayed at some of the attitudes displayed here. laffingboy alone seems to grasp the issue, with his FUDGE-Packer initiative. I must admit that I can barely understand John Morrow's attitude, as I thought he would be pleased at our following through on his ideas.
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